Creating Safe Relationships

When do you think this will be normal?

A friend of mine sent me this post on Facebook today.

I loved it. Yes, this is the world I believe in and love. This is the world where Tantra exists and divine union between people is possible.

However, as I dove into the comments, here are the first bunch I saw:

• I wonder what that really feels like. Almost 58 and maybe someday....there's still time. I hope.

• In an ideal world...

• I remember my mind being COMPLETELY blown as a kid realizing that some kids had supportive parents who liked them and they were not afraid of. As an adult, when I see people with family support and community support, it still blows my mind. I can be this for other people, but can't find it for myself.

• How nice that would be.

• I never felt like this around anyone, ever.

• Must be nice never felt that

• You've possibly woken up on another planet

• I dont think I will ever find safe people again, I lost all my hope

It’s a Challenging Time

I have a course called “Dance of Divine Union” where we study in depth my two books: “Divine Union of the Masculine & Feminine” & “Tantric Intimacy”. It’s a live class where the discussion always takes us to the heart of the human experience and this is an important point that is brought up in every session:

“How do we create a world where people are actually kind to each other?”

Experiencing deep connection to the point of merging requires, at its foundation, genuine love, trust, and respect. However, this is very uncommon. So, even studying the topics of connection can be very challenging.

It’s challenging because we look back at our upbringing and realize how we seldom experienced unconditional love and support. We look at our friends and intimate relationships and see the power struggles that seem unending. We look at our workplaces and can’t imagine it being about humans working together and not robotic control.

However, it doesn’t have to be this way.

This isn’t how we are designed.

We are designed for true connection. This is why we are so hurt when it isn’t there.

Planting Seeds for the Future

So, we must trust what we can see inside and begin today. We must have faith that this longing inside to feel true community is real… and it’s real because it’s possible.

It will not be possible with everyone. But there are millions of people out there right now with whom this kind of safety and kindness is absolutely possible. They are living it every day without having to read any books or take courses.

It’s natural to them and they love sharing their lives with others.

We can also begin to shift the relationships we have now. We can find kind ways to explain boundaries to those we love. We can release any power struggles we have with others and see if there is a deeper understanding that will help us navigate to a different kind of loving connection.

There is so much that we can do right now.

Optimism is deeply linked with faith in our inner Truth.

We just have to follow that, and see how the Universe unfolds around us.

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